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He Doesn’t Really Want the Perfect Woman He Wants These 3 Things from You Instead

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How much time do you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want? If you’re like most women, it’s a LOT. You spend all this time making yourself look sexy and attractive. All this time presenting yourself as fun, interesting, worldly, and not needy in the slightest. You spend all this time showing him just how good you’d be for him… How amazing his future would be if he chose you as the woman by his side… And it doesn’t work. It never works. WHY? Why do you work so hard… And the guy in your life just takes you for granted, if he even notices you at all? It’s probably because he’s immature, right? He can’t recognize a good thing until it’s gone. Or maybe…  It’s because you’ve been doing all the work for him. If He Doesn’t Work for Your Relationship, He Won’t Value It Fact: What men value most are those things they have to work hard to get. Hand a man a college diploma, and he won’t value it as much as if he’d had to put in years of study and effort to earn it
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What you seek is seeking you - 10 Steps to Attract the Life You Want

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“What you seek is seeking you.” - Rumi If I told you that you could create the exact type of circumstances you want, would you call me crazy? What if your very thoughts could create ripples of change that not only impact your life… …but those around you as well? Philip, a call center worker from the Philippines certainly didn't think so. He dreamed of moving overseas so he could secure a better life and provide for his family.  But at every turn, his own mind shut down every opportunity he thought of.  For instance, Philip considered seeing an immigration consultant, but he either “didn't have the time” or “couldn't afford it”. So, he resented his situation and cursed himself (and the world) for his “bad luck”.  He didn't realize that the real culprit was his mindset - not his circumstances.  And it seemed like the more he ruminated, the more bad things happened.  Thus, he kept feeding the cycle of being stuck in a rut and feeling bad, trapping
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The Einstein Success Code Review

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Ever since the bestselling book, “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne was released, the law of attraction has taken the world by storm. Everybody is talking about it and countless books have been released on this topic alone. It has its fans and its detractors. The question here is – “If one’s life could change by thinking positively alone, why do millions of people languish in despair?” They’re broke, emotionally unfulfilled and can’t ever seem to catch a break… and here’s the worst part – many of them are desperately trying to use the law of attraction, but to no avail. The truth of the matter is that while the law of attraction works, there’s a science behind it. A ‘code’ to follow. Positive thinking alone will not suffice. Attraction = attract + action. You need to follow a series of actions to see the wealth or whatever you desire, manifest in your life. Kevin Rogers, has taken a very unique approach by examining Einstein’s life under a microscope to revea
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3 Ways to Subliminally Persude and Influence People

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Subliminal persuasion is the way of getting another party to agree with you without outwardly doing so and without the other person noticing that you were trying to persuade him or her. A lot of people do not even notice that they have been won over by a simple smile - thus, making even that a tool for subliminal persuasion. Here are 3 ways to subliminally persude and influence people: 1) Use the right words and inflections. You can subliminally persuade another person his or her own words, and via inflection, or the particular words we give emphasis to in a given statement. A simple sentence like "I can't assure you that" can have a lot of meanings, depending on which word you have inflected. See the examples below. I  can't assure you that. (But somebody else probably can) I  can't  assure you that. (No way that will happen!) I can't  assure  you that. (But, if you're lucky, you might get it.) I can't assure  you  that. (But I
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From Failure to Success: How to Help a Failure Become Successful

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Let me tell you a story. There once was a man who was a failure in everything he did. He managed to get a decent job though, but his co-workers continued to belittle and mock him because he can't seem to get anything right. On the contrary, his boss was a persuasion expert. Instead of scolding the man, his boss motivated him and made him a much better person. Whenever the man made a mistake, his boss would say, "It's ok. We all make mistakes all the time. I know you will learn from this experience and you'll do much better next time." This act boosted the man's ego. Whenever the man did something right, even if it's the littlest thing, his boss would praise him and say, "You're very much improved. Good job!" His boss would sometimes even assign him good qualities that he may not even possess yet. Because the boss expected the man to be capable of doing great things, and by assigning him qualities that he may not even p
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How to Use Persuasion to Handle Difficult Customers

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Persuasion techniques are essential to apply in the field of sales and marketing, as dealing with an irrational customer is one of the toughest situations you can tackle. This is where influence and persuasion techniques may come in handy. Because the field of sales is not a walk in the park, there will be times when you will be shouted at, and even hurled harsh words by clients who are not satisfied. Don't be alarmed. This is a normal situation. And being so, there are ways to rise above them so that you don't break down, too. First, find out what the client is angry about. What are his sentiments exactly? You can find this out by being calm with the client, no matter how irritable he is. Ask politely what the problem is and request that he explain it to you. Don't interrupt and try to defend yourself or correct him while he explains. Wait for him to finish and then enumerate all your responses to his problems. One thing clients hate most is continuously w
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